跟读练习: How to Make People Feel HEARD - 通过视频学习英语口语
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the best businesses, leaders will, on a semi-irregular basis, depending on the size of the business, it could be once a year,
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but you go out to the field or you call people up and say, how are you?
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Just checking in, wanted to see how you're doing.
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Or, I want to learn about your career ambitions.
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How did you find yourself in this profession?
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Where do you want to go?
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What are your ambitions?
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Do you have kids?
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Do you have a family?
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Tell me something about you?
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Do you like working here?
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What is something that we can do better?
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What's something that I'm not seeing?
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And some of it might be helpful and some of it might not be helpful, but the point is you'll get information that you ordinarily wouldn't get,
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and most important, they've probably never been asked before ever.
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And so simply showing up to listen or take them out for lunch and get their input about the business,
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they're on the front line.
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So they actually have a lot of customer information that you don't have.
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And so talking to them about what they're hearing, what they're seeing, what other business opportunities they think there are.
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Listening is a big thing.
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Listening is active, and listening is very difficult.
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You should be, at the end of the day of listening, you should be exhausted, right?
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Because you're not listening for words, you're listening for meaning.
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And the goal of listening is not to prove that you heard.
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The goal of listening is that they feel heard, right?
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And so you don't have to agree with everything and you don't have to like everything.
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You have to take it in.
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You can ask clarifying questions.
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But remember, they're going to take a risk to tell you something and if you receive it graciously,
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they'll tell you more and more and more and you'll develop a relationship where honesty and truth becomes the currency.
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If you're defensive or you attempt to correct or dismiss what they say,
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they'll shut down and they'll tell you what you want to hear or tell you nothing because that's the condition you created.
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And so good listening sounds like this.
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Can you tell me are there things in this business that you think that we can do better?
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And it doesn't matter if they're right or wrong.
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It's their experience.
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And you don't have to agree.
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We always say that if you have an emotional response, if it makes you angry or upset, it's probably true.
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If you feel nothing about what they said, then maybe they misunderstood, but you can still take it all in, write it down and say,
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tell me more, go on, go on, what else?
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And that's basically your entire job.
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What else go on?
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And you'll walk away the list and you'll be like, I knew these things were ready, these things I didn't know, these things, it's just a bit of a bitch fest, that's okay, everybody has that.
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You'll walk away with some information, but most importantly, they feel heard.
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本课的词汇与口语要点
这段视频共有 44 个句子、520 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 2:48。 说话人语速较快，每分钟约 186 个词，会出现较多连读和弱读。 93% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，词汇容易理解。
视频中的重点词汇
视频中 12 个值得学习的单词，附发音和释义：
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| helpful 形容词 | /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/ | 有幫助 /有帮助 |
| ambition 名词 | /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/ | 奢望, 抱負 /抱负 |
| currency 名词 | /ˈkʌɹ.ən.si/ | 貨幣 /货币 |
| input 名词 | /ˈɪnpʊt/ | 輸入 /输入 |
| depend 动词 | /dɪˈpɛnd/ | 信任, 信賴 /信赖 |
| importantly 副词 | /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/ | 重要的是... |
| honesty 名词 | /ˈɑ.nɪ.sti/ | 誠實 /诚实 |
| clarify 动词 | /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.faɪ/ | 澄清 |
| dismiss 动词 | /dɪsˈmɪs/ | 解僱 /解雇 |
| exhaust 动词 | /ɪɡˈzɔst/ | 抽完 |
| irregular 形容词 | /ɪˈɹɛɡ.jə.lɚ/ | 無常 /无常 |
| misunderstand 动词 | /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/ | 誤會 /误会, 誤解 /误解 |
需要注意的发音
说话人用了 26 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 they're, you'll, don't。请按听到的简短形式来说。
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: ambition /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/, profession /pɹəˈfɛʃ.ən/, graciously /ˈɡɹeɪʃəsli/
- 长单词——注意重音位置: importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/, irregular /ɪˈɹɛɡ.jə.lɚ/, misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, ordinarily /ɔɹdɪˈnɛɹɪli/
如何用这段视频练习
- 先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
- 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
- 录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 helpful, ambition, currency 这类单词。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。