Практика Shadowing: How to Make People Feel HEARD - Изучайте разговорный английский по видео
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the best businesses, leaders will, on a semi-irregular basis, depending on the size of the business, it could be once a year,
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but you go out to the field or you call people up and say, how are you?
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Just checking in, wanted to see how you're doing.
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Or, I want to learn about your career ambitions.
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How did you find yourself in this profession?
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Where do you want to go?
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What are your ambitions?
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Do you have kids?
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Do you have a family?
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Tell me something about you?
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Do you like working here?
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What is something that we can do better?
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What's something that I'm not seeing?
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And some of it might be helpful and some of it might not be helpful, but the point is you'll get information that you ordinarily wouldn't get,
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and most important, they've probably never been asked before ever.
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And so simply showing up to listen or take them out for lunch and get their input about the business,
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they're on the front line.
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So they actually have a lot of customer information that you don't have.
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And so talking to them about what they're hearing, what they're seeing, what other business opportunities they think there are.
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Listening is a big thing.
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Listening is active, and listening is very difficult.
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You should be, at the end of the day of listening, you should be exhausted, right?
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Because you're not listening for words, you're listening for meaning.
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And the goal of listening is not to prove that you heard.
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The goal of listening is that they feel heard, right?
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And so you don't have to agree with everything and you don't have to like everything.
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You have to take it in.
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You can ask clarifying questions.
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But remember, they're going to take a risk to tell you something and if you receive it graciously,
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they'll tell you more and more and more and you'll develop a relationship where honesty and truth becomes the currency.
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If you're defensive or you attempt to correct or dismiss what they say,
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they'll shut down and they'll tell you what you want to hear or tell you nothing because that's the condition you created.
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And so good listening sounds like this.
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Can you tell me are there things in this business that you think that we can do better?
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And it doesn't matter if they're right or wrong.
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It's their experience.
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And you don't have to agree.
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We always say that if you have an emotional response, if it makes you angry or upset, it's probably true.
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If you feel nothing about what they said, then maybe they misunderstood, but you can still take it all in, write it down and say,
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tell me more, go on, go on, what else?
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And that's basically your entire job.
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What else go on?
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And you'll walk away the list and you'll be like, I knew these things were ready, these things I didn't know, these things, it's just a bit of a bitch fest, that's okay, everybody has that.
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You'll walk away with some information, but most importantly, they feel heard.
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Лексика и советы по произношению к этому уроку
В этом видео 44 предложений и 520 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 2:48. Говорящий говорит быстро, около 186 слов в минуту, поэтому звуки часто сливаются и сокращаются. 93% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка, поэтому лексика простая.
Ключевая лексика этого видео
14 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:
| Слово | Произношение | Значение |
|---|---|---|
| helpful прилагательное | /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/ | поле́зный, любе́зный |
| ambition существительное | /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/ | амби́ция |
| defensive прилагательное | /dɪˈfɛn.sɪv/ | оборони́тельный, защи́тный |
| currency существительное | /ˈkʌɹ.ən.si/ | валю́та |
| input существительное | /ˈɪnpʊt/ | вклад |
| depend глагол | /dɪˈpɛnd/ | зави́сеть |
| profession существительное | /pɹəˈfɛʃ.ən/ | обе́т |
| honesty существительное | /ˈɑ.nɪ.sti/ | че́стность, добросовестность |
| clarify глагол | /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.faɪ/ | очища́ть, чи́стить |
| dismiss глагол | /dɪsˈmɪs/ | увольня́ть, уво́лить |
| exhaust глагол | /ɪɡˈzɔst/ | исче́рпывать, исче́рпать |
| fest существительное | /fɛst/ | собра́ние |
| irregular прилагательное | /ɪˈɹɛɡ.jə.lɚ/ | непра́вильный, нестанда́ртный |
| misunderstand глагол | /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/ | неправильно понимать |
Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите
| Слово | Значение |
|---|---|
| shut down глагол | выключить, остановить |
Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание
Говорящий использует 26 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например they're, you'll, don't. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.
- Звуки «sh» и «zh»: ambition /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/, profession /pɹəˈfɛʃ.ən/, graciously /ˈɡɹeɪʃəsli/
- Длинные слова — следите за ударением: importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/, irregular /ɪˈɹɛɡ.jə.lɚ/, misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, ordinarily /ɔɹdɪˈnɛɹɪli/
Как заниматься с этим видео
- Прослушайте всё видео один раз молча и выпишите незнакомые слова.
- Начните со скорости 0,75×, повторяйте предложение за предложением и вернитесь к обычной скорости, когда станет легко.
- Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как helpful, ambition, defensive.
Что такое техника Shadowing?
Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.