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Good morning, it's Chika.
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Feels a little weird to say that.
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I actually had a little episode I wanted to share with you today.
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It reminded me of something important, and so I thought maybe it could be a reminder for you as well.
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So the other day, Pudding got quite upset over something.
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I tried to stay calm, and I did prevent myself from getting angrier, you know, kind of attacking her for her tantrum.
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But because it lasted so long and I couldn't really help her through it,
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I started getting frustrated with myself and upset and doubting everything I knew.
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I had these beliefs about parenting and kind of the things that I value.
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But sometimes when it doesn't work out, you start wondering if you're doing the right thing, which is the hard thing about parenting.
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You just kind of have to try your best, right?
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But that was not my best.
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And so I started feeling guilty and sad and frustrated and all these emotions.
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And I kind of got stuck there.
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And we had plans to go out later that day.
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And I was just like, there's no way I can get in the mood to go out.
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I am just so upset right now.
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That trivial thing that
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Pudding was upset about was affecting me just as much or even more than her.
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So I was like, okay, I just need to calm down.
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I sat down and I looked out the window
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and I catch kind of the leaves blowing in the wind on the trees.
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And all of a sudden, I feel space in my mind.
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What was filled with emotion and tears and craziness just kind of, it was like the wind outside kind of blew them away.
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And I finally had space to think logically, rationally and I was able to call myself down
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and have a conversation with Pudding about what had happened and kind of clear our understanding.
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She had her own reasons for getting upset
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and we were able to share that and kind of get through it
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and we were able to go out and spend the rest of the day a nice weekend.
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A couple days later, Pudding has another upset moment
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and I remembered what had happened to me a few days earlier
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and so instead of really trying to like convince her
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that it's okay which we tend to do I think we try to talk our kids through it
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and when they're emotional they're not in the capacity to listen
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so instead of trying to talk her through it
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and be like it's okay just said come with me
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and we went over to the window we looked outside I was like oh look outside do you see
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that lady standing and waiting for the bus what shirt is she wearing
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and I started to just notice things
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and we talk about it I'd be like did you see
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that arch over there it looks like a rainbow doesn't it
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and as I gave her a few of those observations she started observing a few things too
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and she started talking about it I could see
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that she now had space in her mind to think clearly
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and I had actually told her about the experience that I had and I was like next time you get upset.
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Maybe we should try that.
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And so she knew that she was doing what I had done a couple days ago.
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And I was like, did that work?
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And she's like, yeah.
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And she was able to calm down.
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I think a lot of the times we get
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so wrapped up in what's in front of us and we forget to look out.
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And sometimes we need to zoom out and kind of realize that this is not everything.
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And to get a bigger picture, I think it's very easy for us to get lost and stuck in the now,
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in the present, in the problem, in our feelings.
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And when you get stuck there and you try to work your way through it, sometimes it doesn't work as well.
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Sometimes you just need to lock out, create some space in your mind first.
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It was a really weird feeling because I was so upset this one second.
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And as soon as I look up and my attention went to the leaves blowing in the wind,
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it's just like, oh, what was I upset about?
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It's the weekend.
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We need to go out and have fun.
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What am I doing getting so upset about this?
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And I just got logical and rational again.
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The next morning, I wrote about that experience and I knew this was something I'd be able to use.
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I didn't think I'd be able to use it so quickly a couple of days later with pudding.
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And it was so cool to see that it worked for her too.
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You know, if you guys ever have a moment where you feel like you're just stuck there looking out
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and just focusing on something else, giving our attention to something else other than emotions around us, it helps you just to step back.
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That was a little something, a realization, a reminder that I wanted to share with you today.
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I hope that it reminded you of something.
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I hope you felt something.
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I hope it helped you wake up a little bit.
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And if you enjoyed this English talk, Let me know in the comments and hopefully more of these to come.

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이 말하기 레슨은 영상 “気持ちに余裕がなくなった時は... 【5分のネイティブ英語トーク】〔 〕”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: upset, pudding, stuck, space. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 74개와 단어 933개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 4:54입니다. 화자는 분당 약 190단어로 빠르게 말하므로 연음과 약하게 발음되는 소리가 많습니다. 단어의 87%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속해 어휘가 쉬운 편입니다.

이 영상의 핵심 어휘

영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어발음뜻
pudding 명사/ˈpʊdɪŋ/푸딩
emotion 명사/ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/감정
remind 동사/ɹəˈmaɪnd/생각나게 하다, 상기(想起)시키다
leaf 명사/lif/잎
belief 명사/bɪˈliːf/믿음
mood 명사/muːd/기분
sudden 형용사/ˈsʌd.ən/급격한
tear 동사/tɛɹ/찢다
convince 동사/kənˈvɪns/납득시키다, 확신시키다
wrap 동사/ɹæp/싸다
observation 명사/ˌɑbzɚˈveɪʃn̩/관찰
observe 동사/əbˈzɜːv/관찰하다
rational 형용사/ˈɹæʃ(ə)nəl/합리적
arch 명사/ɑɹt͡ʃ/아치
trivial 형용사/ˈtɹɪv.i.əl/사소하다

영상에 나오는 구동사

단어발음뜻
go out 동사나가다
sit down 동사앉다
wake up 동사/ˌweɪk ˈʌp/눈뜨다, 일어나다
zoom out 동사/ˌzuːm ˈaʊt/줌 아웃하다, 축소(縮小)하다

이 영상의 문법

화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형영상 속 표현
동사 + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — 뒤에 -ing형이 오는 동사started getting · start wondering · started observing
과거진행 was/were + -ing — 과거의 어느 시점에 진행 중이던 동작was affecting · was doing
최상급 the -est / the most … — 집단에서 가장 높거나 낮은 것your best · my best
의무: must / have to / need to 어떤 일이 필요하다고 말할 때have to try · need to calm · need to zoom

주의할 발음

화자는 doesn't, I'd, they're 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 12번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

  • “sh”와 “zh” 소리: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, observation /ˌɑbzɚˈveɪʃn̩/, rational /ˈɹæʃ(ə)nəl/, realization /ˌɹɪə.laɪˈzeɪ.ʃən/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

  • /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: leaf /lif/, belief /bɪˈliːf/, frustrate /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/
  • /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: convince /kənˈvɪns/, observation /ˌɑbzɚˈveɪʃn̩/, observe /əbˈzɜːv/, trivial /ˈtɹɪv.i.əl/
  • /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: observation /ˌɑbzɚˈveɪʃn̩/, observe /əbˈzɜːv/, zoom /zuːm/, realization /ˌɹɪə.laɪˈzeɪ.ʃən/

이 영상으로 연습하는 방법

  1. 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
  2. 0.75배속으로 한 문장씩 섀도잉을 시작하고, 익숙해지면 보통 속도로 돌아갑니다.
  3. 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, pudding, emotion, remind 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.

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