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What is the most strange and saddest phenomena of psychological life?
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One of the strangest and saddest phenomena of psychological life is that there are parents, too many parents, who end up,
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while sometimes only half realizing it, bullying their own children.
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Why do parents bully their children?
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In short, in order to try to feel better about themselves themselves.
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Because they suffer intensely in the very same area that they are choosing to bully their child in.
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Someone made them feel awful and they surmise,
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by twisted logic, that they will feel better through the process of making their own child feel very bad indeed.
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They aren't doing it personally.
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The child is just collateral damage to a misguided project of healing and an attenuation of symptoms.
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It doesn't make any sense, of course, but But it may actually work for the parent for a time.
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Let's imagine a parent who harbours a terrible fear of being stupid.
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Somewhere in their own past, they were belittled and made to feel hugely inadequate.
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Now a child comes along, their own child, full of the normal hesitations and weaknesses of early infancy.
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Without really realising what they're up to, the parent grows inflamed and incensed by this child's apparent stupidity
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and starts to mock and attack in another person what they fear and hate in themselves.
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It makes them feel a bit better.
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The child becomes a repository of all that they fail to tolerate in themselves.
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They, the child, are the dumb one, so they, the parent, don't have to be.
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They, the child, are the stupid and ugly one, so they, the parent, don't have to be.
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And therefore, the parent is liberated to live more easily within itself self.
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The bad is contained and localised.
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It can't be in them if it's all in little him or her.
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It can take bullied children a very long time to realise that they have even been bullied.
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They don't after all grow up thinking
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that someone else has actually made them feel stupid or made them feel ugly or made them feel soiled,
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let alone their own parent whom they depend on and admire and long to be loved by.
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They simply think that they are stupid, ugly and soiled.
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There is no call for an explanation or a cause.
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Yet, if we are those now grown -up bullied children, we don't need to wonder too much more about what might have happened to us.
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We simply need to take stock of how we feel about ourselves
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and guess that the terrible judgements and sensations that we have about ourselves did not arise spontaneously.
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The feelings we harbour of ourselves are legacies of real occurrences in the world.
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Someone who isn't necessarily owning up to it made us feel a certain way
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and that is why now we are in such pain.
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Typically, those who've been bullied don't look backwards.
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Their illnesses point them relentlessly to the present and the future.
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The bullied anticipate terrible things happening to them that echo events
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that once happened to them but that they don't remember in any way.
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They are causeless paranoiacs, self -haters and warriors.
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Catastrophe is never far away.
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A person feels they're ugly because two decades ago a mother made them feel as such.
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A person feels they've done something very wrong because even further back someone did something very wrong to them.
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The fear contains the imprint of unconscious history.
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We overcome our bullying when we learn to discriminate between what actually belongs to us and what was placed in us.
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Between who we are and what we've been told we are.
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Between how our caregivers like to present themselves and what they've actually done.
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Our triggers and apprehensions lie along the fault lines of our early traumas.
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So they can guide us back to what we suffered through when we are ready to explore.
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We're on our way to overcoming bullying when we can say at last, I'm not ugly, I was made to feel unacceptable.
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I haven't done anything wrong.
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Something wrong was done to me.
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And in general, I am not awful.
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Something awful happened to me.
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Wortschatz und Sprechhinweise zu dieser Lektion
Diese Sprechübung basiert auf dem Video „Why Parents Bully Their Children“. Diese Wörter kommen am häufigsten vor: parent, bullied, ugly, themselves, stupid. Dieses Video enthält 54 Sätze und 701 Wörter zum Nachsprechen. Der gesprochene Teil dauert 4:07. Der Sprecher spricht in natürlichem Tempo, etwa 170 Wörter pro Minute, ähnlich wie im Alltagsgespräch. 84 % der Wörter gehören zu den 3.000 häufigsten im Englischen; den Rest solltest du dir vor dem Üben ansehen.
Wichtiger Wortschatz in diesem Video
15 lernenswerte Wörter aus dem Video, mit Aussprache und Bedeutung:
| Wort | Aussprache | Bedeutung |
|---|---|---|
| bully Substantiv | /ˈbʊli/ | Rabauke, Bully |
| ugly Adjektiv | /ˈʌɡli/ | hässlich, häßlich (pre-1996) |
| awful Adjektiv | /ˈɔːfʊl/ | schrecklich, furchtbar |
| bullying Substantiv | /ˈbʊ.li.ɪŋ/ | Schikanieren, Schikane |
| suffer Verb | /ˈsʌfɚ/ | leiden |
| soil Substantiv | /sɔɪl/ | Erde, Grund |
| overcome Verb | /ˌəʊ.vəˈkʌm/ | überwinden, bewältigen |
| psychological Adjektiv | /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/ | psychologisch |
| phenomenon Substantiv | /fəˈnɒm.ɪ.nən/ | Phänomen, Erscheinung |
| necessarily Adverb | /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/ | notwendigerweise, nötig |
| explanation Substantiv | /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/ | Erläuterung, Erklärung |
| illness Substantiv | /ˈɪl.nəs/ | Krankheit |
| belong Verb | /bɪˈlɒŋ/ | hingehören, dazugehören |
| legacy Substantiv | /ˈlɛɡəsi/ | Vermächtnis |
| apparent Adjektiv | /əˈpæɹənt/ | offensichtlich |
Phrasal Verbs, die du hören wirst
| Wort | Bedeutung |
|---|---|
| grow up Verb | aufwachsen, erwachsen werden |
| come along Verb | mitgehen |
| end up Verb | sich herausstellen, am Ende irgendwo / etwas sein |
Grammatik in diesem Video
Die Strukturen, die der Sprecher am häufigsten verwendet, mit den genauen Worten aus dem Video:
| Struktur | Im Video |
|---|---|
| Passiv be + Partizip Perfekt – wichtig ist, was geschieht, nicht wer es tut | were belittled · is liberated · is contained |
| Present Perfect have/has + Partizip Perfekt – eine vergangene Handlung, die jetzt noch wichtig ist | have even been bullied · has actually made · who've been bullied |
Aussprache, auf die du achten solltest
Der Sprecher verwendet 19 Kurzformen und abgeschwächte Formen, zum Beispiel don't, they're, they've. Sprich sie in der kurzen Form, so wie du sie hörst.
- Die Laute „sh“ und „zh“: explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, unconscious /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəs/, sensation /sɛnˈseɪʃən/, hesitation /ˌhɛzɪˈteɪʃən/, apprehension /æp.ɹiˈhɛn.ʃən/
- Lange Wörter – auf die Betonung achten: psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, phenomenon /fəˈnɒm.ɪ.nən/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, unacceptable /ˌʌn.ækˈsɛp.tə.bl̩/
Laute, die Deutschsprachigen schwerfallen:
- /w/ — mit runden Lippen, nicht wie das deutsche „w“ (/v/): twist /twɪst/, weakness /ˈwik.nɪs/, warrior /ˈwɔɹi.ɚ/, inadequate /ɪnˈædəkwɪt/, backward /ˈbækwɚd/
- Stimmhafter Auslaut — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ am Wortende nicht verhärten: depend /dɪˈpɛnd/, arise /əˈɹaɪz/, backward /ˈbækwɚd/, misguided /ˌmɪsˈɡaɪdɪd/, surmise /sɚˈmaɪz/
- /æ/ — offener als „ä“: apparent /əˈpæɹənt/, unacceptable /ˌʌn.ækˈsɛp.tə.bl̩/, inadequate /ɪnˈædəkwɪt/, anticipate /ænˈtɪs.ɪ.peɪt/, backward /ˈbækwɚd/
So übst du mit diesem Video
- Höre dir das ganze Video einmal an, ohne zu sprechen, und notiere die Wörter, die du nicht kennst.
- Beginne mit 0,75-facher Geschwindigkeit, sprich Satz für Satz nach und wechsle zur normalen Geschwindigkeit, sobald es leichtfällt.
- Nimm dich auf und vergleiche mit dem Original; achte dabei auf Wörter wie bully, ugly, awful.
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