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20 Signs That You Are Emotionally Mature
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You realise that most of the bad behaviour of other people really comes down to fear and anxiety,
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rather than, as it's generally easier to presume, nastiness or idiocy.
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You loosen your hold on self-righteousness and stop thinking of the world as populated by either monsters or fools.
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– it makes things less black and white at first, but in time, a great deal more interesting.
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You learn that what's in your head can't automatically be understood by other people.
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You realise that, unfortunately, you're going to have to articulate your intentions
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and feelings with the use of words –
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and can't fairly blame other people for not getting what you mean until you've spoken calmly and clearly.
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You learn that, remarkably, you do sometimes get things wrong.
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With huge courage, you take your first faltering steps towards, once in a while, apologising.
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You learn to be confident, not by realising that you're great, but by learning that everyone else is just as stupid,
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scared and lost as you are.
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We're all making it up as we go along.
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And that's fine.
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You You forgive your parents because you realise that they didn't put you on this earth in order to insult you.
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They were just painfully out of their depth and struggling with demons of their own.
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Anger turns, at points, to pity and compassion.
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You learn the enormous influence of so-called small things on mood – bedtimes, blood sugar and alcohol levels,
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degrees of background stress and so on.
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And as a result, you learn never to bring up an important contentious issue with a loved one until everyone is well rested, no one is drunk, you've had some food,
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nothing else is alarming you and you're not rushing to catch a train.
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You give up sulking.
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If someone hurts you, you don't store up the hatred and the hurt for days.
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You remember we'll all be dead soon.
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You don't expect others to know what's wrong.
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You tell them straight and if they get it, you forgive them.
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And if they don't, in a different way, you forgive them too.
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You cease to believe in perfection in pretty much every area.
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There aren't any perfect people, perfect jobs or perfect lives.
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Instead, you pivot towards an appreciation of what is, to use the psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott's exemplary phrase, good enough.
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You realise that many things in your life are at once quite frustrating and yet, in many ways, eminently good enough.
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You learn the virtues of being a little more pessimistic about how things will turn out
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and as a result emerge as a calmer, more patient and more forgiving soul.
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You lose some of your idealism and become a far less maddening person.
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You learn to see that everyone's weaknesses of character are linked to counterbalancing strengths.
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Rather than isolating their weaknesses, you look at the whole picture.
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Yes, someone is rather pedantic, but they're also beautifully precise and a rock at times of turmoil.
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Yes, someone is a bit messy, but at the same time brilliantly creative and very visionary.
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You realise, truly realise, that perfect people don't exist and that every strength will be tagged to a weakness.
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You fall in love a bit less easily.
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It's difficult in a way.
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When you were less mature, you could develop a crush in an instant.
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Now, you're poignantly aware that everyone, however externally charming or accomplished, would be a bit of a pain from close up.
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You develop loyalty to what you already have.
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You learn that you are, rather surprisingly, quite a difficult person to live with.
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You shared some of your earlier sentimentality towards yourself.
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You go into friendships and relationships offering others kindly warnings of how and when you might prove a challenge.
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You learn to forgive yourself for your errors and foolishness.
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You realise the unfruitful self-absorption involved in simply flogging yourself for past mistakes.
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You become more of a friend to yourself.
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Of course you're an idiot, but you're still a lovable one, as we all are.
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You learn that part of what maturity involves is making peace with the stubbornly childlike bits of you that will always remain.
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You cease trying to be a great grown up at every occasion.
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You accept that we all have our regressive moments, and when the inner two-year-old you raises its head,
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you greet them generously and give them the attention they need.
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You cease to put too much hope in grand plans for the kind of happiness you expect could last for years.
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You start to celebrate the little things that go well.
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You realise that Satisfaction comes in increments of minutes.
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You're delighted if one day passes by without too much bother.
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You take a greater interest in flowers and in the evening sky.
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You develop a taste for small pleasures.
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What people in general think of you ceases to be such a concern.
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You realise that the minds of others are muddled places
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and you don't try so hard to polish your image in everyone else's eyes.
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What counts is that you and one or two others are okay with you being you.
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You give up on fame and start to rely on love.
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You get better at hearing feedback.
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Rather than assuming that anyone who criticises you is either trying to humiliate you or is making a mistake,
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you accept that maybe it would be an idea to take a few things on board.
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You start to see that you can listen to a criticism and survive it, without having to put on your armour and deny that there was ever a problem.
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You realise the extent to which you tend to live, day by day, in too great a proximity to certain of your problems and issues.
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You remember more and more that you need to get out and get a perspective on the things that pain you.
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You take more walks in nature.
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You might get a pet – they don't fret like we do –
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and you appreciate the distant galaxies above us in the night sky.
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You recognise how your distinctive past colours your response to events, and learn to compensate for the distortions that can result.
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You accept that because of how your childhood went, you have a predisposition to exaggerate in certain areas.
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You become suspicious of your own first impulses around particular topics.
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You realise, sometimes, not to go with your first feelings.
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When you start a friendship, you realise that other people don't principally want to know your good news, so much as gain an insight into what troubles and worries you,
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so that they can, in turn, feel less lonely with the pains of their own hearts.
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You become a better friend because you see that what friendship is really about is a sharing of vulnerability.
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to more clearly explain our moods.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “20 Signs You're Emotionally Mature”. בסרטון הזה יש 85 משפטים ו-1168 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 7:41. הדובר מדבר בקצב טבעי של כ-152 מילים בדקה, קרוב לשיחה יומיומית. 82% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| cease פועל | /sis/ | חדל |
| weakness שם עצם | /ˈwik.nɪs/ | חולשה |
| exaggerate פועל | /ɛɡˈzæd͡ʒ.ə.ɹeɪt/ | הגזים |
| frustrate פועל | /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/ | תִּסְכֵּל |
| increment שם עצם | /ˈɪŋkɹɪmn̩t/ | תוספת |
| pessimistic שם תואר | /ˌpɛ.səˈmɪs.tɪk/ | פסימי |
| righteousness שם עצם | /ˈɹaɪt͡ʃəsnəs/ | צדק |
| absorption שם עצם | /æbˈsɔɹp.ʃn̩/ | ספיגה, בליעה |
| compensate פועל | /ˈkɑm.pənˌseɪt/ | תִּגְמֵל |
| messy שם תואר | /ˈmɛsi/ | חסר סדר, מבולגן |
| maturity שם עצם | /məˈtjʊəɹɪti/ | בַּגְרוּת |
| proximity שם עצם | /pɹɒkˈsɪm.ɪ.ti/ | קִרְבָה |
| emerge פועל | /ɪˈmɝd͡ʒ/ | צץ, התגלה |
| virtue שם עצם | /ˈvɝt͡ʃu/ | מַעֲלָה, מַעֲלַת טֻכֹּות |
| compassion שם עצם | /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/ | רַחֲמִים, חֶמְלָה |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | משמעות |
|---|---|
| give up פועל | וִתֵּר |
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
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| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | be understood · is drunk · are linked |
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | you've spoken · you've had |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-23 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו don't, you're, can't. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: contentious /kənˈtɛn.ʃəs/, foolishness /ˈfuːlɪʃnəs/, predisposition /ˌpridɪspəˈzɪʃən/, visionary /ˈvɪʒəˌnɛɹi/, distortion /dɪsˈtɔːʃən/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: counterbalance /ˌkaʊntɚˈbæləns/, eminently /ˈɛmɪnəntli/, exaggerate /ɛɡˈzæd͡ʒ.ə.ɹeɪt/, exemplary /ɪɡˈzɛmpləɹi/, humiliate /hjuːˈmɪliˌeɪt/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: counterbalance /ˌkaʊntɚˈbæləns/, exaggerate /ɛɡˈzæd͡ʒ.ə.ɹeɪt/, pedantic /pəˈdæn.tɪk/, madden /ˈmædən/, absorption /æbˈsɔɹp.ʃn̩/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: exaggerate /ɛɡˈzæd͡ʒ.ə.ɹeɪt/, exemplary /ɪɡˈzɛmpləɹi/, falter /ˈfɔltəɹ/, frustrate /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/, increment /ˈɪŋkɹɪmn̩t/
- עיצור קולי בסוף מילה — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ בלי להפוך אותם לאטומים: emerge /ɪˈmɝd͡ʒ/, distinctive /dɪˈstɪŋktɪv/, hatred /ˈheɪtɹɪd/, intentions /ɪnˈtɛnʃənz/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו cease, weakness, exaggerate.
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