跟讀練習: How our expectations shape what we see, hear, and feel - 通過影片學習英語口語
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It can certainly feel like emotions happen to you, that they bubble up and that they cause you to do and say things.
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But that experience is an illusion that the brain creates.
但那種體驗其實是大腦產生的一種錯覺。
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Not everybody has as much control as they might like, but everybody has a little more control than they think they do.
並非每個人都能擁有自己期望的那麼多掌控力,但每個人所擁有的掌控力,其實都比自己以為的要多一點。
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When you're experiencing emotion or you're in an emotional state, what your brain is doing is telling itself a story about
當你正在經歷某種情緒,或者處於情緒狀態中時,你的大腦其實是在向自己講述一個關於
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what is going on inside your body in relation to what's happening in the world.
你的身體內部正在發生什麼,與外界世界的變化又有著怎樣的關聯。
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Your brain is always regulating your body.
你的大腦始終在調節你的身體。
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Your body is always sending sensory information back to your brain.
你的身體會持續不斷地向大腦傳遞感官資訊。
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And your brain isn't wired in a way for you to experience those sensory changes specifically.
而且你的大腦的連線方式並不足以讓你具體體驗到那些感官變化。
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Instead, what you experience is a summary.
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And that's where those simple feelings come from.
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If you understand that every experience you have now becomes part of your brain's ability to predict,
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then you realize that the best way to change your past is to change your present.
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Just in the same way that you would exercise to make yourself healthier,
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you can invest energy to cultivate different experiences for yourself.
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The fact that your brain is using your past experience to predict what you're going to see and hear and feel
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means that you are an architect of your experience.
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And that doesn't involve breaking predictions.
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It involves seeding your brain to predict differently.
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It's my belief that the way in which emotions evolved was to deal with things like saber-toothed tigers,
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the current incarnation of which is the car that's suddenly lurching at your car at a high speed.
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You don't have time to think.
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In split seconds, you have to do and make very complex decisions.
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And if you had to think about what you were doing, you'd be dead.
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It's a system that evolved to deal with really important things without your thinking about.
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So that means that sometimes you're going to be very unconsidered, very thoughtless.
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Well, these exercises that we're giving people, moving their facial muscles,
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concentrating on the sensations to make them more aware of an emotion
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when it arises so that they will feel it at the moment
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and then can say did you really mean to ignore me?
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No. It was just an accident or maybe I shouldn't jump to the conclusion that she doesn't care about me at all.
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The way in which we can improve of our emotional life is to introduce conscious awareness.
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Nature did not want you to do that.
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So you have to do it yourself.
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All relationships are colored with expectations about myself and about the other.
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My expectations influence that which I then see or hear.
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It is a filter as well as my mood.
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That is one of the most important things to understand about relationships and communication
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is how people actually co-create each other in the context of a relationship, because those people make part of who we are.
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We will draw from them the very things which we expect from them, even when it's the opposite of what we really want.
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A lot of emphasis is put on our ability to say certain things, to say them in the right way,
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to articulate our needs, our feelings, our thoughts, our positions, our opinions.
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What is lacking is the ability to see
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that speaking is entirely dictated by the quality of the listening that is reflected back on us.
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If I am talking to someone who is on their phone, I will be expressing myself and experiencing the communication completely different than
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if I am speaking to someone who is looking at me in the eyes who says to me, I get it, I understand.
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Not necessarily I agree, because ultimately, if I speak to you, and in the end, I live feeling even more alone,
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I am literally in an existential crisis.
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There is nothing worse than to be alone in the presence of another.
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So when you listen to me, the first thing I need to know is that I have your attention.
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The second thing I need to know is that maybe you can acknowledge the validity of my point of view.
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And potentially you may even empathize with my point of view.
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You can understand why I would think or feel or experience things the way I do.
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That reflecting back, acknowledging, validating, empathizing.
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That sequence is where the depth of communication takes place.
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When you enter this world, you're not wired full of memories that your brain will use to predict.
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Other people cultivate your world
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and as a consequence they are wiring your brain full of experiences that your brain will then use to predict.
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So as an adult you can make decisions about what you experience now.
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You can make choices about how you act and those decisions
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and choices either reinforce the predictions that your brain makes or it changes them.
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Sometimes in life we are responsible for changing things not
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because we're culpable or to blame for those things but because we're the only ones who can change them.
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You always have tools available at your disposal to heal yourself,
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to act differently, and to feel differently.
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本課的詞彙與口語要點
這段影片共有 64 個句子、881 個單詞可供跟讀。 講話部分時長為 6:51。 說話人語速平穩,每分鐘約 128 個詞,很適合跟讀。 87% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞,其餘的詞建議在練習前先學一下。
影片中的重點詞彙
影片中 15 個值得學習的單詞,附發音和釋義:
| 單詞 | 發音 | 釋義 |
|---|---|---|
| predict 動詞 | /pɹɪˈdɪkt/ | 預言 /預言 |
| emotion 名詞 | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | 感情, 情感 |
| wire 名詞 | /ˈwaɪɚ/ | 線 /線, 鐵絲 /鐵絲 |
| reflect 動詞 | /ɹɪˈflɛkt/ | 反映, 反射 |
| acknowledge 動詞 | /əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/ | 承認 /承認 |
| expectation 名詞 | /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/ | 等待 |
| prediction 名詞 | /pɹɪˈdɪkʃən/ | 預言 /預言, 預估 /預估 |
| sensory 形容詞 | /ˈsɛn.sə.ɹi/ | 感覺的 /感覺的 |
| ignore 動詞 | /ɪɡˈnɔː/ | 無視 /無視, 忽略 |
| necessarily 副詞 | /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/ | 必然地, 必定地 |
| belief 名詞 | /bɪˈliːf/ | 相信, 信心 |
| awareness 名詞 | /əˈwɛɹ.nəs/ | 意識 /意識, 覺悟 /覺悟 |
| mood 名詞 | /muːd/ | 心情, 情緒 /情緒 |
| muscle 名詞 | /ˈmʌs.əl/ | 肌肉, 筋肉 |
| conclusion 名詞 | /kənˈkluːʒən/ | 結束 /結束 |
需要注意的發音
說話人用了 14 次縮略和弱讀形式,例如 you're, we're, doesn't。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。
- “th” 音: tooth /tuθ/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/, thoughtless /ˈθɔtləs/
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, prediction /pɹɪˈdɪkʃən/, conclusion /kənˈkluːʒən/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/
- 長單詞——注意重音位置: differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, validity /vəˈlɪd.ɪ.ti/
如何用這段影片練習
- 先完整聽一遍影片,不要開口,記下不認識的單詞。
- 用正常速度逐句跟讀,每句重複到你的節奏與說話人一致為止。
- 錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比,特別注意 predict, emotion, wire 這類單詞。
影片中的語法
說話人最常用的結構,並附上影片中的原話:
| 結構 | 影片中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼,而不是誰做的 | isn't wired · are colored · is put |
| 定語從句 who / which + 從句 — 補充說明人或事物 | someone who is · ones who can |
什麼是跟讀法?
跟讀法 (Shadowing) 是一種有科學依據的語言學習技巧,最初開發用於專業口譯員的培訓,並由多語言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。這個方法簡單而強大:您在聽英語母語原聲的同時立即大聲重複——就像是一個延遲1-2秒緊跟說話者的影子。與被動聽力或語法練習不同,跟讀法強迫您的大腦和口腔肌肉同時處理並模模擬實的講話模式。研究表明它能顯著提高發音準確性,語調,節奏,連讀,聽力理解和口語流利度——使其成為雅思口語備考和真實英語交流最有效的方法之一。
































