تدريب Shadowing: 2 Unexpected Ways to Stop Sabotaging Yourself - تعلم التحدث بالإنجليزية عبر الفيديو

جارٍ إنشاء الدرس...
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There's an enlightening
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and sometimes slightly painful exercise one can do by oneself to
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learn a bit more about the origins of how one feels and behaves.
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Pick out something emotional that you know you're not very good at now and write it down on a sheet of paper.
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Here are some examples.
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Staying calm.
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Taking pride in yourself.
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Trusting.
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Missing people who go away.
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We often observe these traits in ourselves with a mixture of puzzlement and embarrassment.
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Why are we like this?
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Why can't we be more normal?
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What's up with us?
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To find a way to some answers, continue to the second part of the exercise.
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Insert the above entries into the following sentence.
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How safe would it have been for you to do this in your childhood?
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i.e. staying calm, taking pride in yourself, etc. Now, try to reflect on why it might have been unsafe to do or feel a certain way in the past.
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It didn't feel safe to feel calm because maybe someone was drinking heavily in the house.
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It didn't feel safe to take pride in oneself because maybe someone was obsessively jealous.
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It didn't feel safe to trust because someone was cruel or unreliable.
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It didn't feel safe to miss people who were absent because maybe the pain would have broken one's heart.
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Notice that in all cases, what in later life becomes a problem starts off by being a very clever protective strategy.
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We are more mysterious to ourselves than we should be
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when we fail to see that much of what we do
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that looks odd or unusual in adult life is really a relic of a protective strategy
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that made a lot of sense in childhood.
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The point of waking up to the origins of a protective strategy is
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that we can then learn to see that it isn't necessary to hold onto it any longer.
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There is no reason to fail at work in order to avoid the spectre of jealousy,
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we can afford to miss people when they go because they'll be back and we can dare to feel and to love.
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We need not continue our loyalty to our past protective strategies once we understand the particular circumstances
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that once made them so necessary and that now no longer apply.
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المفردات وملاحظات التحدث لهذا الدرس

يحتوي هذا الفيديو على 32 جملة و386 كلمة للتدرب على الترديد. مدة الكلام 2:16. يتكلم المتحدث بسرعة طبيعية، نحو 170 كلمة في الدقيقة، قريبة من المحادثة اليومية. 85% من الكلمات ضمن أكثر 3,000 كلمة شيوعًا في الإنجليزية، ويُستحسن مراجعة الباقي قبل البدء.

أهم المفردات في هذا الفيديو

15 كلمة أقل شيوعًا من الفيديو، مع النطق والمعنى:

  • sheet /ʃit/ (اسم) — وَرَقَة, وَرَق. A thin bed cloth used as a covering for a mattress or as a layer over the sleeper.
  • reflect /ɹɪˈflɛkt/ (فعل) — عَكَسَ. To bend back (light, etc.) from a surface.
  • painful /ˈpeɪn.fl̩/ (صفة) — أَلِيم, مُؤْلِم. Causing pain or distress, either physical or mental.
  • dare /dɛ(ə)ɹ/ (فعل) — جَرُؤَ. To have enough courage (to do something).
  • jealous /ˈd͡ʒɛl.əs/ (صفة) — غَيُور. Suspecting rivalry in love; troubled by worries that one might have been replaced in someone's affections; suspicious of a lover's or spouse's fidelity.
  • mixture /ˈmɪkst͡ʃɚ/ (اسم) — خَلِيط. The act of mixing.
  • loyalty /ˈlɔɪəlti/ (اسم) — وَفَاء, إِخْلَاص. The state of being loyal; fidelity.
  • mysterious /mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/ (صفة) — غَامِض. Of unknown origin.
  • cruel /ˈkɹuːəl/ (صفة) — قَاسٍ, الْقَاسِي. Intentionally causing or reveling in pain and suffering; merciless, heartless.
  • observe /əbˈzɜːv/ (فعل) — لَاحَظَ, رَاقَبَ. To notice or view, especially carefully or with attention to detail.
  • insert /ɪnˈsɝt/ (فعل) — أَدْخَلَ. To put in between or into.
  • behave /bɪˈheɪv/ (فعل) — تَصَرَّفَ. To conduct (oneself) well, or in a given way; to conform.
  • absent /ˈæb.sn̩t/ (صفة) — غَائِب. Being away from a place; withdrawn from a place; existing but not present; (sometimes) missing.
  • embarrassment /ɪmˈbæɹ.əs.mənt/ (اسم) — إحْرَاج. A state of discomfort arising from bashfulness or consciousness of having violated a social rule; humiliation.
  • jealousy /ˈd͡ʒɛl.ə.si/ (اسم) — حَسَد, غَبْط. A state of being jealous; a jealous attitude.

الأفعال المركبة التي ستسمعها

  • go away (فعل) — اِبْتَعَدَ. To depart or leave a place.

نطق يحتاج إلى انتباه

يستخدم المتحدث 8 من الصيغ المختصرة، مثل didn't, can't, isn't. انطقها بصيغتها القصيرة كما تسمعها.

  • أصوات “sh” و“zh”: unusual /ʌnˈjuːʒ(u)əl/, sheet /ʃit/
  • الكلمات الطويلة — انتبه لموضع النبر: unusual /ʌnˈjuːʒ(u)əl/, mysterious /mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/, embarrassment /ɪmˈbæɹ.əs.mənt/, unreliable /ˌʌn.ɹəˈlaɪ.ə.bəl/

كيف تتدرب بهذا الفيديو

  1. استمع إلى الفيديو كاملًا مرة واحدة دون أن تتكلم، ودوّن الكلمات التي لا تعرفها.
  2. ابدأ بسرعة 0.75×، وردّد جملة جملة، ثم عُد إلى السرعة العادية عندما يصبح الأمر سهلًا.
  3. سجّل صوتك وقارنه بالأصل، مع الانتباه إلى كلمات مثل sheet, reflect, painful.

ما هي تقنية التظليل الصوتي؟

التظليل الصوتي (Shadowing) تقنية تعلم لغة مدعومة علمياً، طُورت أصلاً لتدريب المترجمين الفوريين المحترفين. الطريقة بسيطة لكنها قوية: تستمع لصوت إنجليزي أصلي وتكرره فوراً بصوت عالٍ — كظل يتبع المتحدث بتأخير 1-2 ثانية. تُظهر الأبحاث تحسناً كبيراً في دقة النطق والتنغيم والإيقاع وربط الأصوات والاستماع والطلاقة.

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