शैडोइंग अभ्यास: Stop Taking Everything Personally | Mel Robbins #shorts - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें
पाठ बनाया जा रहा है...
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- Learning how to take nothing personally will change your life.
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Because most of what people do, it has nothing to do with you.
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Let their mood be theirs.
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Your life is yours.
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That's where you take your power back.
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See, one of the biggest ways to lose your peace of mind is to give someone else yours.
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That's why you're picking up on a tone.
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That's why you feel like you have to manage their mood, because they seem like they got it together, but then they're acting so weird.
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That's why you gotta learn to just Let people deal with themselves it doesn't mean that you don't have compassion.
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It doesn't mean that you don't care about people.
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It means that you recognize that there's a very important boundary between you and other adults.
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You are not responsible for managing other people's moods.
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You're not responsible for managing other people's expectations.
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There's one person.
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that you're responsible for, and it's you.
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When other people don't like your boundary, when you're letting them be in a bad mood, when you stop fixing everybody else's problems,
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when you stop bending yourself in knots and twisting yourself into all kinds of uncomfortable positions just to make everybody else happy.
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When you start drawing that boundary and you just kind of let people Deal with themselves?
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and they don't like it, it doesn't mean the boundary's wrong, it means it's working.
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See, people don't like it when you start changing.
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That's okay, let them.
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You got to focus on the let me part.
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Let me manage myself let their mood be theirs My mood is mine.
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Let their life be their life to fix.
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Let me focus on my life and the things that I need to fix.
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So here's what I want you to start practicing.
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When someone comes at you with an attitude, when someone's energy is off, when a text feels weird, when you catch yourself spiraling,
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when you start feeling like you've got to become the police or the parents to grown adults...
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want you to say to yourself out loud if you can let their mood be theirs And then you say, my life is mine.
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See, you can care about people without absorbing their problems.
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You can have compassion that somebody is in a bad mood or feeling disappointed or sad or low or whatever,
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without making it your job to fix it.
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इस पाठ की शब्दावली और बोलने के सुझाव
इस वीडियो में शैडोइंग के लिए 32 वाक्य और 406 शब्द हैं। बोला गया हिस्सा 2:33 लंबा है। वक्ता लगभग 159 शब्द प्रति मिनट की स्वाभाविक गति से बोलता है, जो रोज़मर्रा की बातचीत के करीब है। 90% शब्द अंग्रेज़ी के 3,000 सबसे आम शब्दों में से हैं, इसलिए शब्दावली आसान है।
इस वीडियो की मुख्य शब्दावली
वीडियो के 12 कम प्रचलित शब्द, उच्चारण और अर्थ के साथ:
- mood /muːd/ (संज्ञा) — स्वभाव, मनोदशा. A mental or emotional state, composure.
- boundary /ˈbaʊndɹi/ (संज्ञा) — सीमा. The dividing line or location between two areas.
- theirs /ðɛɚz/ — उनका. That or those belonging to them; the possessive case of they, used without a following noun.
- compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/ (संज्ञा) — दया, करुणा. Deep awareness of the suffering of others that people have to the point of them being motivated to relieve such states.
- disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/ (विशेषण) — निराश. Defeated of expectations or hope; experiencing disappointment; let down.
- twist /twɪst/ (क्रिया) — मोड़ना, मरोड़ना. To turn the ends of something, usually thread, rope etc., in opposite directions, often using force.
- uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/ (विशेषण) — असहज. Not comfortable; causing discomfort.
- bend /bɛnd/ (क्रिया) — झुकाव, प्रवृत्ति. To cause (something) to change its shape into a curve, by physical force, chemical action, or any other means.
- expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/ (संज्ञा) — आशा, अपेक्षा. The act or state of expecting or looking forward to an event as about to happen.
- spiral /ˈspaɪɹəl/ (संज्ञा) — सर्पिल. A curve that is the locus of a point that rotates about a fixed point while continuously increasing its distance from that point.
- absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/ (क्रिया) — सोखना. To include so that it no longer has separate existence; to overwhelm; to cause to disappear as if by swallowing up; to incorporate; to assimilate; to take in…
- knot /nɑt/ (संज्ञा) — गाँठ, गिरह. A looping of a piece of string or of any other long, flexible material that cannot be untangled without passing one or both ends of the material through its…
ध्यान देने योग्य उच्चारण
वक्ता 15 बार संक्षिप्त रूपों का प्रयोग करता है, जैसे don't, you're, doesn't। इन्हें वैसे ही छोटा बोलें जैसा आप सुनते हैं।
- “sh” और “zh” की ध्वनियाँ: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/
- लंबे शब्द — बलाघात सही रखें: disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/
इस वीडियो से अभ्यास कैसे करें
- पहले बिना बोले पूरा वीडियो एक बार सुनें और जो शब्द नहीं आते उन्हें लिख लें।
- 0.75× गति से शुरू करें, एक-एक वाक्य की शैडोइंग करें, और सहज लगने पर सामान्य गति पर लौटें।
- अपनी आवाज़ रिकॉर्ड करें और मूल से तुलना करें, ख़ासकर mood, boundary, theirs जैसे शब्दों पर ध्यान दें।
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