跟读练习: Stop Taking Everything Personally | Mel Robbins #shorts - 通过视频学习英语口语

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- Learning how to take nothing personally will change your life.
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Because most of what people do, it has nothing to do with you.
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Let their mood be theirs.
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Your life is yours.
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That's where you take your power back.
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See, one of the biggest ways to lose your peace of mind is to give someone else yours.
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That's why you're picking up on a tone.
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That's why you feel like you have to manage their mood, because they seem like they got it together, but then they're acting so weird.
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That's why you gotta learn to just Let people deal with themselves it doesn't mean that you don't have compassion.
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It doesn't mean that you don't care about people.
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It means that you recognize that there's a very important boundary between you and other adults.
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You are not responsible for managing other people's moods.
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You're not responsible for managing other people's expectations.
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There's one person.
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that you're responsible for, and it's you.
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When other people don't like your boundary, when you're letting them be in a bad mood, when you stop fixing everybody else's problems,
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when you stop bending yourself in knots and twisting yourself into all kinds of uncomfortable positions just to make everybody else happy.
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When you start drawing that boundary and you just kind of let people Deal with themselves?
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and they don't like it, it doesn't mean the boundary's wrong, it means it's working.
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See, people don't like it when you start changing.
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That's okay, let them.
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You got to focus on the let me part.
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Let me manage myself let their mood be theirs My mood is mine.
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Let their life be their life to fix.
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Let me focus on my life and the things that I need to fix.
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So here's what I want you to start practicing.
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When someone comes at you with an attitude, when someone's energy is off, when a text feels weird, when you catch yourself spiraling,
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when you start feeling like you've got to become the police or the parents to grown adults...
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want you to say to yourself out loud if you can let their mood be theirs And then you say, my life is mine.
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See, you can care about people without absorbing their problems.
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You can have compassion that somebody is in a bad mood or feeling disappointed or sad or low or whatever,
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without making it your job to fix it.

本课的词汇与口语要点

这段视频共有 32 个句子、406 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 2:33。 说话人语速自然,每分钟约 159 个词,接近日常对话。 90% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词,词汇容易理解。

视频中的重点词汇

视频中 13 个不太常见的单词,附发音和释义:

  • mood /muːd/ (名词) — 心情, 情緒 /情绪. A mental or emotional state, composure.
  • boundary /ˈbaʊndɹi/ (名词) — 邊界 /边界. The dividing line or location between two areas.
  • theirs /ðɛɚz/ — 他們的 /他们的, 她們的 /她们的. That or those belonging to them; the possessive case of they, used without a following noun.
  • compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/ (名词) — 同情, 愛心 /爱心. Deep awareness of the suffering of others that people have to the point of them being motivated to relieve such states.
  • tone /ˈtəʊn/ (名词) — 全音. A specific pitch.
  • disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/ (形容词) — 敗興 /败兴, 失望. Defeated of expectations or hope; experiencing disappointment; let down.
  • twist /twɪst/ (动词) — 扭, 搓. To turn the ends of something, usually thread, rope etc., in opposite directions, often using force.
  • uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/ (形容词) — 不舒服. Not comfortable; causing discomfort.
  • bend /bɛnd/ (动词) — 彎 /弯. To cause (something) to change its shape into a curve, by physical force, chemical action, or any other means.
  • expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/ (名词) — 等待. The act or state of expecting or looking forward to an event as about to happen.
  • spiral /ˈspaɪɹəl/ (名词) — 螺線 /螺线. A curve that is the locus of a point that rotates about a fixed point while continuously increasing its distance from that point.
  • absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/ (动词) — 吸收. To include so that it no longer has separate existence; to overwhelm; to cause to disappear as if by swallowing up; to incorporate; to assimilate; to take in…
  • knot /nɑt/ (名词) — 結 /结, 繩結 /绳结. A looping of a piece of string or of any other long, flexible material that cannot be untangled without passing one or both ends of the material through its…

需要注意的发音

说话人用了 15 次缩略和弱读形式,例如 don't, you're, doesn't。请按听到的简短形式来说。

  • “sh” 和 “zh” 音: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/
  • 长单词——注意重音位置: disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/

如何用这段视频练习

  1. 先完整听一遍视频,不要开口,记下不认识的单词。
  2. 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读,熟练之后再回到正常速度。
  3. 录下自己的声音并与原声对比,特别注意 mood, boundary, theirs 这类单词。

什么是跟读法?

跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧,最初开发用于专业口译员的培训,并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大:您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同,跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性,语调,节奏,连读,听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。

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