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- Learning how to take nothing personally will change your life.
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Because most of what people do, it has nothing to do with you.
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Let their mood be theirs.
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Your life is yours.
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That's where you take your power back.
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See, one of the biggest ways to lose your peace of mind is to give someone else yours.
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That's why you're picking up on a tone.
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That's why you feel like you have to manage their mood, because they seem like they got it together, but then they're acting so weird.
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That's why you gotta learn to just Let people deal with themselves it doesn't mean that you don't have compassion.
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It doesn't mean that you don't care about people.
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It means that you recognize that there's a very important boundary between you and other adults.
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You are not responsible for managing other people's moods.
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You're not responsible for managing other people's expectations.
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There's one person.
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that you're responsible for, and it's you.
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When other people don't like your boundary, when you're letting them be in a bad mood, when you stop fixing everybody else's problems,
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when you stop bending yourself in knots and twisting yourself into all kinds of uncomfortable positions just to make everybody else happy.
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When you start drawing that boundary and you just kind of let people Deal with themselves?
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and they don't like it, it doesn't mean the boundary's wrong, it means it's working.
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See, people don't like it when you start changing.
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That's okay, let them.
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You got to focus on the let me part.
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Let me manage myself let their mood be theirs My mood is mine.
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Let their life be their life to fix.
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Let me focus on my life and the things that I need to fix.
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So here's what I want you to start practicing.
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When someone comes at you with an attitude, when someone's energy is off, when a text feels weird, when you catch yourself spiraling,
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when you start feeling like you've got to become the police or the parents to grown adults...
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want you to say to yourself out loud if you can let their mood be theirs And then you say, my life is mine.
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See, you can care about people without absorbing their problems.
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You can have compassion that somebody is in a bad mood or feeling disappointed or sad or low or whatever,
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without making it your job to fix it.

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本課的詞彙與口語要點

這段影片共有 32 個句子、406 個單詞可供跟讀。 講話部分時長為 2:33。 說話人語速自然,每分鐘約 159 個詞,接近日常對話。 90% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞,詞彙容易理解。

影片中的重點詞彙

影片中 13 個不太常見的單詞,附發音和釋義:

  • mood /muːd/ (名詞) — 心情, 情緒 /情緒. A mental or emotional state, composure.
  • boundary /ˈbaʊndɹi/ (名詞) — 邊界 /邊界. The dividing line or location between two areas.
  • theirs /ðɛɚz/ — 他們的 /他們的, 她們的 /她們的. That or those belonging to them; the possessive case of they, used without a following noun.
  • compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/ (名詞) — 同情, 愛心 /愛心. Deep awareness of the suffering of others that people have to the point of them being motivated to relieve such states.
  • tone /ˈtəʊn/ (名詞) — 全音. A specific pitch.
  • disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/ (形容詞) — 敗興 /敗興, 失望. Defeated of expectations or hope; experiencing disappointment; let down.
  • twist /twɪst/ (動詞) — 扭, 搓. To turn the ends of something, usually thread, rope etc., in opposite directions, often using force.
  • uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/ (形容詞) — 不舒服. Not comfortable; causing discomfort.
  • bend /bɛnd/ (動詞) — 彎 /彎. To cause (something) to change its shape into a curve, by physical force, chemical action, or any other means.
  • expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/ (名詞) — 等待. The act or state of expecting or looking forward to an event as about to happen.
  • spiral /ˈspaɪɹəl/ (名詞) — 螺線 /螺線. A curve that is the locus of a point that rotates about a fixed point while continuously increasing its distance from that point.
  • absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/ (動詞) — 吸收. To include so that it no longer has separate existence; to overwhelm; to cause to disappear as if by swallowing up; to incorporate; to assimilate; to take in…
  • knot /nɑt/ (名詞) — 結 /結, 繩結 /繩結. A looping of a piece of string or of any other long, flexible material that cannot be untangled without passing one or both ends of the material through its…

需要注意的發音

說話人用了 15 次縮略和弱讀形式,例如 don't, you're, doesn't。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。

  • “sh” 和 “zh” 音: compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/
  • 長單詞——注意重音位置: disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/

如何用這段影片練習

  1. 先完整聽一遍影片,不要開口,記下不認識的單詞。
  2. 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟讀,熟練之後再回到正常速度。
  3. 錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比,特別注意 mood, boundary, theirs 這類單詞。

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跟讀法 (Shadowing) 是一種有科學依據的語言學習技巧,最初開發用於專業口譯員的培訓,並由多語言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。這個方法簡單而強大:您在聽英語母語原聲的同時立即大聲重複——就像是一個延遲1-2秒緊跟說話者的影子。與被動聽力或語法練習不同,跟讀法強迫您的大腦和口腔肌肉同時處理並模模擬實的講話模式。研究表明它能顯著提高發音準確性,語調,節奏,連讀,聽力理解和口語流利度——使其成為雅思口語備考和真實英語交流最有效的方法之一。

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