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Welcome to the Listening Time Podcast.
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Hey everybody, this is Connor, and you're listening to episode 127 of the Listening Time Podcast.
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Thank you all for listening.
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Today my voice is a little bit weak, because I'm a little bit sick, so I'm sorry about that.
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I appreciate you bearing with me.
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I appreciate your patience.
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By the way, speaking of patience, this is the topic of today's episode: patience.
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So I want to talk about this today,
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so I think this will be a good topic for all of us because I think that
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Pretty much everybody has room for improvement when it comes to patience.
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By the way, we use that phrase "room for improvement." This just means that you have space to improve.
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You are not perfect, there are still improvements.
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that you can make.
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So we all have room for improvement when it comes to patience, so this should be a good topic for today's episode,
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and hopefully it will inspire all of us to be a little bit more patient in our everyday lives,
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and hopefully that will help us out.
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from the U .S and we talk about a bunch of different topics and you get to learn a lot
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about the US, our culture, different topics.
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These conversations are really interesting, and we speak naturally.
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And I provide the transcript for you, so you can follow along,
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and you also have the definitions of new words and phrases.
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that you might not know that we use during the conversation.
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So if you're interested in that, the link is in the description below this episode.
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with anyone else you know who's learning English.
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Alright, let's get started.
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Okay, let's talk about patience.
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So, First of all, I need to mention that I'm not the most patient person in the world.
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This is an area in which I need to improve a lot.
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I am willing to admit that because I'm not the most patient person,
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and I really want to improve in this area.
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I look at my wife, for example.
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She's more patient than I am,
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and I try to learn from her because there are times when we're both dealing with the same situation,
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and she is patient and calm, and I'm more agitated.
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The word "agitated" means that you are bothered and anxious for some reason.
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I might be agitated and yet she's perfectly fine, and we're dealing with the same issue.
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So I can see that other people have more patience than me sometimes,
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and I really want to improve in this regard.
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I need to improve, and I try to do so every day.
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tons and tons of patience.
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I'm talking as someone who needs to improve in this area.
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So, what are some different situations in which We need to be patient.
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The first one that comes to mind is when we're sitting in traffic.
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By the way, we use that phrase sitting in traffic when we talk about being in your car and you're in traffic,
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it's moving very slowly, or sometimes it's not moving at all.
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traffic.
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So, This is the first situation that comes to mind when I think of patience,
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because it's a very common occurrence, and for me, it's one of the most frustrating situations.
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I hate being in traffic, it's one of the worst things.
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I'm sure a lot of you agree with me about this.
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So if we're not patient, then traffic can really...
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bother us, it can really annoy us, and sometimes it can ruin your day
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because you allow your mood to be negatively affected by the fact that you have to wait in traffic.
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So this is something that we want to avoid because we can't control traffic.
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It's completely outside of our control and if we get bothered.
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by traffic, this doesn't help us.
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We can't do anything to change the situation, to make the traffic suddenly go away.
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We have no control over that.
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I don't think it's worth it to lose our patience,
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to lose our cool and get really angry when we're stuck in traffic.
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There's no benefit to that.
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By the way, when we say that you lose your cool, This means that you lose your patience and you snap,
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you get mad, you get really frustrated.
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Right?
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So, We don't want to lose our cool just because traffic is bad.
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So that's the first thing that comes to mind because I'm guilty of this.
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Sometimes when I'm stuck in traffic, I get frustrated and I let it affect my mood,
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but I definitely shouldn't do this.
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So that's one that I need to work on.
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Another situation in which we need patience is when we're dealing with a difficult person.
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We've all been there, we all know how this is, By the way, when I say that we've all been there,
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what I'm saying is we've all been in this situation.
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So we've all been there.
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We've all had to deal with...
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a difficult person in some situation or another,
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and sometimes we can lose our cool and we can allow this situation or this person to
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frustrate us to the point where we act differently, we don't do what we should do,
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or maybe we talk in a way that isn't the best.
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I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
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Sometimes we have to deal with difficult people,
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and it's important to not let them bring us down to
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the level where we're getting really mad for no good reason, right?
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Sometimes we get angry at another person for a legitimate reason,
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I'm not talking about being angry with a person because They've done some horrible thing.
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They've committed some wicked crime or something like that.
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That's not what I'm referring to.
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I'm referring to situations where a person is just hard to deal with and you need to be patient with them.
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So that can happen in the workplace, that can happen just in public,
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at stores, with employees, at certain companies, in a lot of situations.
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So dealing with these people
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requires patience and it's good to act patiently in these situations because sometimes we are the difficult people.
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Sometimes I am the difficult person or you are the difficult person and other
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sometimes we need people to be patient with us.
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So it goes both ways.
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And another situation in which we need to be patient is listening to people.
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You might not think of this as a situation that requires patience, but it does. Because...
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People talk.
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and we should try to listen.
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And sometimes people talk
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lot or their story that they're telling takes a long time and you can get bored or you can start to
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get distracted or you can stop listening for example and we sometimes lose patience
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when we have to listen to other people talk because Everybody loves to talk about what they want to talk about.
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People like to be the ones to share things and talk about things,
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but not everybody likes to listen.
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And that's a more important skill, is being able to listen when other people talk to you.
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And that's something that we should all try to improve on.
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and make sure that we're patient and we are listening to people and we are genuinely caring
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about what other people are saying, and if you do this,
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if you demonstrate patience in this situation, you're gonna have better relationships.
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People are gonna like you more.
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You're gonna have fewer arguments, maybe.
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The other person is gonna feel more cared about.
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for example, and you'll have better communication overall.
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So I think that we should all practice with just being able to
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shut our mouths and listen to other people speak
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and not just immediately try to talk and interrupt and say what we want to say.
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We should let the other person finish before we start giving our opinion about something, for example.
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language.
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This is very relevant to all of you and to me because I'm a language learner.
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Learning a language takes a long time.
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I constantly get questions from people asking about their language learning process and usually they express frustration that
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they aren't improving fast, or they feel stuck,
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or they feel like their progress is not what they want it to be,
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they feel like they have a problem,
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they ask me questions, and they frame the question kind of like saying that there's something wrong with them.
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Why Aren't I improving how I should be?
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I have a problem with this.
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What's wrong with me?
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What should I be doing differently?
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I constantly get questions like this and these are legitimate questions.
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I'm not saying that these aren't good questions.
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However, What I want to say is the vast majority of the time when people ask me this question,
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it's not
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like these people are studying in the complete way wrong way and they're wasting their time and they need to completely change
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everything about their language learning routine.
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It's not that.
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Usually, They... are just...
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advancing slowly and they don't realize it and they don't realize how long it takes to learn a language.
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Okay, let me give you an example.
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of my language learning process.
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I've been speaking Spanish for over a decade.
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not a year or a couple years, not five years, not eight years.
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No. I've been speaking Spanish for over 10 years, over a decade now okay?
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My wife is a Spanish speaker.
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She only speaks to me in Spanish.
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Okay?
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I lived in Mexico for six years.
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My whole life was in Spanish for six years, and yet Today, over 10 years later,
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I'm still in the process of learning Spanish, not actively, I don't actively study Spanish.
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However, I'm constantly learning new things, new words.
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There are things that I don't understand.
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There are things that I misunderstand.
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There are things that I need people to repeat.
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because I didn't get it and I make mistakes all the time.
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All of this is what I deal with, and I've been speaking Spanish For over a decade,
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I've lived in the country for many years.
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My wife only speaks in Spanish to me, and yet, I'm still improving,
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I still make mistakes, I still have an accent, I still don't sound anything like a native speaker,
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etc. just know that learning a language takes a really long time,
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in terms of getting to a very high level.
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Of course, you can reach an intermediate level in a pretty short period of time, if you dedicate a lot of hours to it.
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And you can even reach an advanced level in a relatively short period of time.
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depending on your motivation and how many hours you're dedicating to it.
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However, when your goal is to become really good Add a language. That is...
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inevitably gonna take a long time.
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When I say that something is inevitable, what I'm saying is that it's unavoidable.
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So there's no way to avoid this.
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If you want to reach a really high level in English, then that's going to take a really long time.
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Okay?
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That's just how it is.
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We need to be patient.
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And similarly, another situation in which we need to have patience is when we are trying to achieve a goal,
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learning a language is one goal.
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That's one example, but when we want to achieve any goal, we need patience.
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If you want to lose weight, That's not gonna happen tomorrow, right?
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You can't just expect that to happen in 24 hours.
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You need to stick with it for a certain period of time before you actually see these results.
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By the way, the phrase "stick with it" just means that you continue doing something.
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So you need to stick with it and and be patient, and eventually you'll see results, but not overnight.
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The word "overnight" refers to from one day to the next.
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You're not going to see results in just one day.
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you need to have a little more patience than that.
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or if your goal is to learn some new skill.
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Maybe you want to learn a programming language or something like that.
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That's not going to happen overnight.
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You need patience.
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You need to accept that this is going to take some time and eventually you'll reach your goal right, if you stick with it.
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But patience is necessary when we set goals and we want to achieve these goals.
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And another situation that requires a lot of patience is when we're going through government processes.
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This is probably the worst one.
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For me, this is the thing that is the most frustrating and tests my patience the most.
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When I am going through a government process,
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and the government takes long time to do the process and respond to me or to do what they need to do.
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this can be really frustrating.
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I need to have more patience when it comes to this because this is inevitable.
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We all deal with these processes.
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We all live in countries that have governments that are not
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efficient and not very well run and are not the best institutions with the best customer service and all of that.
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All of us are in this situation, regardless of which country you live in.
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So, we need to have patience and know that these processes are gonna take a while and
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we can't do that much to influence this.
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So when my wife was going through the immigration process to live in the US, this took a long time.
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This took multiple years.
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So this was something that required a lot of patience,
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and at times it felt like it was never gonna end.
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But of course, it did and we got through the process and everything is okay now.
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But during that period, it was hard to have patience sometimes.
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And that was something that really taught me to just wait and to not allow things
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that I can't control to negatively impact my life and my daily life and my mood.
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I needed to kind of not focus on this process and just live my life be patient, and wait.
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So that was a big one.
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And one more situation that I wanted to mention, probably the most important one,
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the most important situation in which we need patience,
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is when you are parenting, when you have kids.
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When you have kids, your level of patience is tested in a way unlike anything else.
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So you're dealing with small people,
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humans, that have not learned to act properly, behave well, communicate effectively.
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They don't know this yet.
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They don't have these skills, especially at young ages.
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So If you don't have patience, this is going to be very hard for you.
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You're going to deal with a lot of situations in which you are annoyed or irritated or you feel desperate because
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you know how something needs to be but your kid doesn't,
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they don't know this, or they do the opposite,
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or they do a lot of things that can possibly irritate us and affect our mood,
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and they can cause us to lose our cool sometimes,
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and we need to be careful with this and we need to exercise patience and to
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really understand that kids need instruction and discipline and they need time.
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They need time to learn these things and to learn how to behave properly,
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learn how to communicate, learn how to all of this effectively.
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So we can't expect them to just be born with these skills.
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That's simply not reality and as a parent, patience is necessary.
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You need to understand that these processes take a long time.
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These kids will need a long time before they really learn all these lessons and
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they can do things the way that you can do them as an adult.
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So, For me, that's probably the most important situation in which patience is definitely required.
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So, Those were some different situations, but there are plenty of others.
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I hope this episode was interesting for you,
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and hopefully it got you thinking a little bit about your patience levels,
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and maybe it can inspire all of us to be a little more patient.
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These conversations are really interesting and it's great practice for your listening.
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So make sure to sign up.
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Conversations.
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Alright, thank you for listening to this episode, and I'll talk to you on the next episode of Listening Time.
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Ai Là Người Thích Hợp Với Video Này?
Video này rất phù hợp cho những người học tiếng Anh ở trình độ trung cấp và khá, những người đang tìm kiếm cách nâng cao kỹ năng nghe và nói của mình. Nếu bạn muốn cải thiện khả năng giao tiếp hàng ngày và mở rộng vốn từ vựng của mình, thì đây chính là cơ hội tuyệt vời để thực hành. Những cuộc hội thoại tự nhiên giữa các người bản ngữ sẽ giúp bạn hiểu rõ hơn về ngôn ngữ và văn hóa Mỹ, đồng thời cũng giúp bạn tự tin hơn trong việc giao tiếp.
Các Từ & Thành Ngữ Đáng Giá
- Room for improvement: Cụm từ này có nghĩa là "còn chỗ để cải thiện". Nó nhấn mạnh rằng không ai là hoàn hảo và luôn có cơ hội để phát triển.
- Agitated: Từ này diễn tả trạng thái bị kích thích hoặc lo lắng. Đây là một từ hữu ích khi bạn muốn thể hiện cảm xúc của mình trong các tình huống căng thẳng.
- Patience: Nghĩa là "sự kiên nhẫn". Một phẩm chất quan trọng trong cuộc sống hàng ngày, giúp bạn xử lý các tình huống khó khăn một cách bình tĩnh hơn.
Cách Để Đạt Được Phát Âm Đúng
Để có được phát âm chuẩn như người bản ngữ, bạn có thể áp dụng phương pháp shadow speech hay còn gọi là "shadowing". Điều này có nghĩa là bạn lặp lại ngay lập tức những gì người nói trong video diễn đạt. Hãy chú ý đến intonation (ngữ điệu) và stress (nhấn âm) trong câu để có thể bắt chước cách diễn đạt tự nhiên nhất. Luyện nghe nói qua video là một cách tuyệt vời để cải thiện khả năng này. Bạn có thể thử luyện nói tiếng Anh theo giọng của nhân vật trong video, tập trung vào từng từ và câu để tiến bộ nhanh chóng.
Nếu bạn muốn cải thiện nhanh chóng, hãy dành thời gian mỗi ngày để luyện tập. Sử dụng video này làm một phần trong thói quen học tập của bạn và cảm nhận sự thay đổi trong khả năng giao tiếp của mình. Hãy nhớ rằng, mỗi cuộc hội thoại đều là một cơ hội để bạn học hỏi và tiến bộ!
Ngữ pháp trong video
Những cấu trúc người nói dùng nhiều nhất, kèm đúng cụm từ trong video:
| Cấu trúc | Trong video |
|---|---|
| Thì hiện tại hoàn thành tiếp diễn have/has been + -ing — việc bắt đầu từ trước và vẫn đang tiếp tục | I've been speaking |
| Câu bị động be + quá khứ phân từ — nhấn vào việc xảy ra, không phải người làm | are bothered · might be agitated · is tested |
| Thì hiện tại hoàn thành have/has + quá khứ phân từ — việc đã xảy ra nhưng còn liên quan đến hiện tại | They've done · They've committed · I've lived |
| So sánh nhất the -est / the most … — mức cao nhất hoặc thấp nhất trong một nhóm | the most patient · the most frustrating · the worst |
Phương Pháp Shadowing Là Gì?
Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.