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How do men and women view cheating differently? So it's really interesting.

We asked this question.

I don't think it'd been asked before.

We know that infidelity is something that

Americans largely, across the political divide, across all these different demographic groups, they view as morally wrong.

It's something like eight and 10 or nine and 10.

And that's been consistent.

We've changed our attitudes on a lot of different kinds of personal behavior.

We've become more accepting on some, like homosexuality.

But when it comes to infidelity, especially marital infidelity, Americans strongly oppose.

There's an interesting wrinkle in this.

And that we asked, in our survey, we split the sample.

So we asked two independent groups.

One, if a man commits adultery, and one is the woman commits adultery.

And we had everyone rate whether it's morally wrong or morally acceptable.

and we found that when it comes to men cheating, there wasn't much of a gender difference.

That across the board, pretty much people said, like, yeah, when a man cheats, it's morally wrong.

When it comes to women,

women, especially younger women, were far less likely to take a kind of hardline approach and say it was morally wrong in, like, all circumstances.

There was more like, well, it's either not a moral issue or morally acceptable.

and you know i i hypothesize

that well there's a couple of things might be happening it might be

that you know men uh do commit uh adulterous acts more often um there are power dynamics uh potentially

that they're thinking about um it could be just

that ideologically there's a we know that that

when it comes to things like a shared fate

or linked fate this idea like what happens to other people impacts

you is much higher among young women than it is among uh men or older women.

So there's a number of things that might be going on here,

but we know that it matters to women who's doing the cheating and what the circumstances are.

When asked, is it morally wrong for a man or a woman to cheat?

Yeah.

Men were asked and it was basically the same.

It's morally wrong for men.

Men judge men the same way they judge women, but women judge women differently than men.

Did women judge men more harshly than men judged men?

No, it was actually pretty similar.

Okay.

So everybody, three quadrants of this four quadrant survey are all pretty much the same.

Yeah.

Men judge female cheating and male cheating the same.

Yeah.

And females judge male cheating the same.

Yep.

But females judge female cheating differently.

Yeah.

And it's mostly young women.

So older women are, I think, pretty similar to others.

So it's young women who really stand out on that measure.

and you think

that this is shared fate to a degree shared fate uh

experiences with cheating women are simply more likely to have experience with being cheated on than men um

so this is some righteous retribution

so they're like yeah they may have heard stories like oh you know she she cheated

but like you know this guy was a real jerk and

so like it it could be informed through those kinds of experiences um this is we're all hypothesizing here

because i don't i don't have did you uh oh

i guess it was just a survey you didn't say

i'll say why why have you got this oh that's quite an ugly stat yeah i suppose

that there is this i mean what you do see this more

so online like i i at least from again going anecdotally

i don't see many guys coming out to excuse the behavior of a man cheating on his partner like

if he's got a wife and this might just be the echo chambers

that i'm in uh but i would say that there is a an implication of like, what did he do to deserve it?

Yeah.

As opposed to what did she do to deserve it?

And that seems to be reflected in the survey data too.

Yeah.

And there's probably, I think there's like a mirrored conversation happening around the issue of like sexual assault where women will say like,

well, every woman knows someone who's been sexually assaulted, but no man has a friend who sexually assaults women.

Right.

So you have this sense of like, okay, how can both these things be true?

Um, well, it's quite, at least I, David Buss has got a pretty easy explanation for that,

which is that it's not a thousand men doing one incident each.

It's one man in a thousand doing a thousand incidents.

That like there is tail risk.

It's repeated offenders that are inside the group of men.

I'm convinced of that argument when it comes to like the more serious offenses.

But I think when it comes to sort of less pernicious sort of sexual harassment online, I think is not just one or two perpetrators.

I think it's a much larger group, but I think that, yeah, I'd agree with his perhaps take on the more serious offenses.

It's interesting, man.

Like I remember seeing kind of the wild west of Twitter the first time around, not the second time around, which we're in again, I suppose.

And some of the shit that guys would post in response to women was like call of duty lobby level stuff.

And it's, there's just, there is a limit for what should be acceptable in like common public discourse.

Just because you can say it doesn't mean that it's okay.

And I get it.

Like you can have trolling and all the rest.

This is before trolling.

This is before there was a meme setup that you could have been anti -memetically, like sardonically cool working against,

you know, I'm not contravening this, this norm.

No norms have been created, dude.

It's fucking 2015 or something.

Uh, so I, I get that.

I, I didn't consider the potential for like online sexual harassment to creep in, in this sort of a way.

And I imagine that, especially if you're a young woman growing up in a society that's got it's post me too.

There's a lot of concern about safety around men and bears and woods and stuff.

And then there's this thing that happens online.

And then you see this thing and, you know, maybe your mother at your age would have blown it off or maybe she wouldn't have done,

but now it's really going to hit at this thing, this, this fear, this very visceral fear that every woman has.

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And it's then been perhaps magnified or multiplied through, through modern social media and stuff like that's, that's going to be a gnarly, a gnarly situation.

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Yeah.

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And I think too, the, the extent to which this stuff can like follow you home, right?

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Like you feel like I'm in my home, in my apartment, this is my safe space.

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Wait a minute, I'm getting emails and instant messages

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in a place where I'm supposed to feel safe that are promising to like harm me.

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The other thing too, that I think it's not just about, you know, the harassment either.

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You know, we know that women are more likely to get asked for, to share news.

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So naked pictures of themselves, right?

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And so there's - Who wants to see guy nudes?

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That's my question.

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Not me.

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Yeah, no, me neither mark does but yeah that's it yeah uh

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and so the like there's ways in which that can be exploitative

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and and um uh you know harmful too

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but it's right it happens an awful lot and

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so like like where do you draw the line in some of this stuff i would say

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that boys shouldn't be asking for for nudes of their female classmates in general

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but there's not as strict norms against this stuff

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so what happens is the the girls and young men have to sort of erect those walls and and establish that

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Don't use the word erect when we're talking about it.

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Come on.

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Yeah.

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I mean, look, I can't, I can't, I can't, I can't help but think about it as you were talking about that,

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the difference in supply versus demand of male nudes to female nudes.

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Yeah.

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That like just the straight up supply of unsolicited dick pics, very high.

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Like we don't need any more.

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You want to talk about living in an abundance society?

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We're post abundance with dick pics on the internet, especially if Conor McGregor's online.

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The psychology of that I've never understood.

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Just the unsolicited dick pic?

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Yeah.

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Yeah, very strange.

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You need to work on your dick pics.

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Then on the other side, the request, like, no, I don't know.

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Has any woman ever asked for an unsolicited dick pic?

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Maybe not.

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That might be a world first if a woman went to go and do it now.

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But then on the other side, the demand for female nudes, if I could polymarket this, it would be like, it would just,

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the lines would be at the opposite ends of the graph.

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Этот урок разговорной практики построен на видео «The Cheating Double Standard Nobody Talks About». В этом видео 167 предложений и 1879 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 9:50. Говорящий говорит быстро, около 191 слов в минуту, поэтому звуки часто сливаются и сокращаются. 82% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка; остальные стоит разобрать перед занятием.

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15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:

Слово	Произношение	Значение
cheat глагол	/ˈt͡ʃiːt/	моше́нничать, смоше́нничать
morally наречие	/ˈmɔɹəli/	мора́льно
nude прилагательное	/n(j)uːd/	телесный, телесного цвета
fate существительное	/feɪt/	судьба́, до́ля
assault существительное	/əˈsɔlt/	нападе́ние, ата́ка
commit глагол	/kəˈmɪt/	вверя́ть
acceptable прилагательное	/əkˈsɛp.tə.bəl/	прие́млемый
differently наречие	/ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/	по-друго́му
supplement существительное	/ˈsʌp.lɪ.mənt/	приложе́ние
harassment существительное	/həˈɹæsmənt/	домога́тельства, домога́тельство
norm существительное	/nɔːm/	но́рма
guarantee существительное	/ˌɡæɹ.ənˈtiː/	гара́нтия, пору́ка
wisdom существительное	/ˈwɪzdəm/	му́дрость
offense существительное	/əˈfɛns/	оби́да, оскорбле́ние
sexually наречие	/ˈsɛksjʊəli/	по полово́му при́знаку

Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите

Слово	Значение
get up to глагол	вытворя́ть, вы́творить

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Короткие законченные фразы из видео, которые пригодятся в повседневном разговоре:

I don't think it'd been asked before.
We've become more accepting on some, like homosexuality.
You want to talk about living in an abundance society?
The psychology of that I've never understood.

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Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:

Конструкция	В видео
Условные предложения if + предложение, will/would + глагол — условие и его результат	if I could polymarket this, it would be · If you don't love it, they will give
Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делает	been asked · were asked · is shared
Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчас	that's been · We've changed · We've become
Придаточные определительные who / which + предложение — уточнение о человеке или предмете	women who really · friend who sexually · back, which is

Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание

Говорящий использует 40 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например don't, I'm, can't. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.

Звуки «sh» и «zh»: establish /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/, explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, subscription /səbˈskɹɪpʃən/, prediction /pɹɪˈdɪkʃən/
Длинные слова — следите за ударением: acceptable /əkˈsɛp.tə.bəl/, differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/

Звуки, трудные для русскоязычных:

/w/ — губы округлены, это не /v/: wisdom /ˈwɪzdəm/, wildly /ˈwaɪldli/, quadrant /ˈkwɑ.dɹənt/
/h/ — лёгкий выдох, а не русское «х»: harassment /həˈɹæsmənt/, harm /hɑːm/, harmful /ˈhɑɹmfl̩/, hypothesize /haɪˈpɑ.θəˌsaɪz/, firsthand /ˈfɜːstˌhænd/
Звонкие согласные в конце слова — не оглушайте их: nude /n(j)uːd/, oppose /əˈpoʊz/, naked /ˈneɪkɪd/, divide /dɪˈvaɪd/, subscribe /səbˈskɹaɪb/

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Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как cheat, morally, nude.

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Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.

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