Pratique du Shadowing: Identity Crisis: Why Defining Yourself by Your Career Is a Problem - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec la vidéo
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These days, you can't get anywhere without having a big argument about identity politics.
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I'm this, you're that, I'm a Democrat, you're Republican, I'm a liberal, you're conservative, whatever it happens to be.
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And those sorts of identities are critically important.
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A lot of people in business, they shy away from those identity politics discussions, but they have identity politics all their own.
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They have an identity as a successful person.
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They have an identity that revolves around their excellence in their job.
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Who are you?
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You know, I'm a father and a grandfather, I'm a husband, you know.
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But when people ask me that question, I say I'm a professor at the Harvard Business School.
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Why?
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Because that's my identity.
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Okay, that's a way to identify myself to be sure, but if that's how I see me,
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that's a real problem, isn't it? strips away the really important things that I have in my life.
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For those who see their identity as being a successful professional, specifically successful, that's kind of an identity based on fear, isn't it?
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We all have fears.
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I mean, I have fears.
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It's normal to be afraid of things.
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But a fear of an attack on your identity, that's actually a death fear.
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That's important.
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Only 20% of the population is actually afraid of dying.
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And a lot of people who are really good at what they do, a lot of my students, a lot of the people watching this, they're desperately afraid of failing at work.
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And that leads to a lot of behavior that's not very healthy, as a matter of fact.
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That kind of a stripped down, cardboard cutout version of one's self, which is not good for you, it's not good for your relationships.
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People ask me this all the time who are extremely successful in business, as a matter of fact, who are afraid of failure, and they say, look, I need to get over this, but I don't want to fail.
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What do you recommend?
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I actually have an exercise for that.
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It's called the Maranasati Death Meditation, adapted for professional failure.
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It actually comes from Theravada Buddhism on the southern tier of Asia, of Asia where the Buddhists would practice a contemplation of their own death.
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If you go into a Buddhist monastery in Thailand or Vietnam or Myanmar,
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Sri Lanka, you'll often find that the walls are adorned with photos of corpses in different states of decay.
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And you're like, wow, that's really morbid.
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It's not, it turns out.
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What happens is that the monks and nuns will contemplate those photos and they will look at each one and say, that is me, and that is me.
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And they'll go through this Marnasati, nine-part death meditation, where they contemplate different stages of a body and a body in different states of decomposition.
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They'll say, that's me.
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That's going to be me.
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That's me.
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Why?
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Because they're exposing themselves to the truth of their own mortality such
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that they can transcend it and actually be fully alive right now.
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You see how healthy that is, right?
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Well, for people who are desperately afraid of the death of their identity as a successful person,
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they need to be exposed to that reality as well.
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Because the truth of the matter is, I don't care who's watching this.
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I don't care how successful you are.
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The party's going to finish, man.
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It's not going to last forever.
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And you have to be comfortable with that
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so you can fully be alive and involved in what's going on in your life today.
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Otherwise, you'll be immobilized by the fear of something that paradoxically is the most normal,
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most predictable thing in your whole life.
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Which is that this is going to stop.
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I recommend putting together a little nine-part meditation where you say, starting off saying, I feel like I'm losing my edge at work.
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I don't know.
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You know, my decision making isn't as crisp as it once was.
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And people are starting to notice it.
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Step two might be, people are starting to make remarks about the fact that I'm losing a step.
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Step three might be, I'm thinking the board is starting to talk about my replacement.
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And they're not including me in the discussions.
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Step four is, I'm pretty sure that the end is coming for my career.
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I'm pretty sure.
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I don't want it to come, but I'm pretty sure it's coming.
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Step five is, I've just gotten the word that I have to retire, even though it's not what I wanted to do.
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Step six might be, yeah, I kind of got forced out.
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And the worst part is, I don't think people remember me for what I used to do.
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They just think of me as the guy who got, they got forced out of the job.
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Step seven is, I just went back to my workplace and it's only six months, but a lot of people are new and they didn't know who I am.
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Step eight is I moved away, you know, and now the people that I talk to, they just think of me as a retired person.
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They don't even ask about what I used to do.
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And step nine might be most days I don't even think about what I used to do.
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I'm just living a different life at this point.
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Now, I realize that sounds really negative, but it isn't.
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But it isn't.
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It's normal.
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Think about those things for two minutes each.
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Do that for three weeks and you'll be a different person.
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Why?
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Not because you failed.
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That's not even failure, by the way.
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It's normal life.
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You will no longer be afraid.
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You will no longer be afraid of these things actually happening to you
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because they will have happened to you in your mind.
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They will have happened to you in your heart.
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And you'll be comfortable with the fact that you have a trajectory of your success and the value you're trying to create.
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And when it's over, you're going to submit because that's the only choice.
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And then, then you'll be at peace.
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Everybody needs to manage their own life like a project and understand that your skills and interests are going to change.
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To do things on purpose, to recognize that the good times are not going to last forever
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and you have to engineer new good times under different circumstances.
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That's now what I talk about with people who are getting older
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and that's the advice I'm taking for myself and I don't know.
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I'm actually at peace for the first time in a long time.
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette vidéo contient 93 phrases et 1119 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 6:14. Le locuteur parle à un rythme naturel d’environ 179 mots par minute, proche d’une conversation courante. 87 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
15 mots moins courants de la vidéo, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
- strip /ˈstɹɪp/ (verbe) — enlever. To remove or take away, often in strips or stripes.
- retire /ɹəˈtaɪɹ/ (verbe) — se retirer, prendre sa retraite. To stop working on a permanent basis, usually because of old age or illness.
- desperately /ˈdɛs.p(ə.)ɹət.li/ (adverbe) — désespérément. In a desperate manner; without regard to danger or safety; recklessly.
- expose /ɪkˈspoʊz/ (verbe) — exposer, dénoncer. To reveal; to uncover; to make visible; to bring to light.
- replacement /ɹɪˈpleɪsmənt/ (nom) — remplaçant, substitut. A person or thing that takes the place of another; a substitute.
- skill /skɪl/ (nom) — habileté, compétence. A capacity to do something well; a technique, an ability, usually acquired or learned, as opposed to abilities that are regarded as innate.
- submit /səbˈmɪt/ (verbe) — se soumettre. To yield or give way to another.
- grandfather /ˈɡɹæn(d)ˌfɑðɚ/ (nom) — aïeul. A father of someone's parent.
- tier /ˈtɪɚ/ (nom) — rang. A row or range, especially one at a higher or lower level than another.
- excellence /ˈɛksələns/ (nom) — excellence. The quality of being excellent; brilliance
- workplace /ˈwɝkˌpleɪs/ (nom) — lieu de travail, travail. The place where someone works.
- adapt /əˈdæpt/ (verbe) — adapter. To make suitable; to make to correspond; to fit or suit.
- monk /mʌŋk/ (nom) — moine. A male member of a monastic order who has devoted his life for religious service.
- mortality /mɔɹˈtælɪti/ (nom) — mortalité, condition mortelle. The state of being susceptible to death.
- decay /diˈkeɪ/ (nom) — décrépitude. Rot; any processes or result of organic matter being gradually decomposed, especially by microbial action.
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
- think about /ˈθɪŋk əˌbaʊt/ (verbe) — penser à, réfléchir à. To ponder.
- get over (verbe) — surmonter. To overcome.
- go through (verbe) — traverser. To travel from one end of something to the other.
- look at (verbe) — regarder. To observe or watch.
- move away (verbe) — déménager. To go away from a place, especially when permanently changing one's residence.
- put together (verbe) — assembler. To assemble, construct, build, or formulate.
- take for (verbe) — prendre, confondre. To regard as.
- turn out (verbe) — se finir, se terminer. To end up; to result.
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 48 contractions et formes réduites, comme I'm, don't, you're. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
- Les sons « sh » et « zh »: meditation /mɛdɪˈteɪʃn̩/, contemplation /ˌkɑntəmˈpleɪʃən/, decomposition /diːˌkɒmpəˈzɪʃən/
- Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: desperately /ˈdɛs.p(ə.)ɹət.li/, mortality /mɔɹˈtælɪti/, critically /ˈkɹɪt.ɪ.kə.li/, predictable /pɹəˈdɪktəbləl/, monastery /ˈmɑnəˌstɛɹi/
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La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
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| « Used to » used to + verbe — une habitude ou un état passé qui n’est plus vrai | used to do |
| Propositions relatives who / which + proposition — une précision sur une personne ou une chose | those who see · people who are · self, which is |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | are adorned · be exposed · be immobilized |
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